Moving to or visiting France from India can be an exciting cultural adventure but it also comes with social nuances that are quite different from what many Indians are used to. The French value politeness, personal space, formality, and style in both behavior and appearance. This guide is designed to help Indians adapt smoothly to French society by understanding the dos and don’ts of everyday interactions. from greetings and dining to public behavior and communication. Whether you're a student, tourist, professional, or settling long-term, these tips will help you make a great impression and avoid awkward situations.
Social
DOs:
Greet with “Bonjour” (before 6 PM) or “Bonsoir” (after 6 PM) before any interaction.
Use polite expressions like “Merci”, “S’il vous plaît”, and “Excusez-moi”.
Shake hands lightly in formal settings; do la bise (cheek kisses) among friends.
Be punctual.
Respect personal space.
Dress neatly and modestly.
Speak in lower volumes in public.
DON’Ts:
Don’t use first names right away — say Monsieur/Madame.
Don’t assume everyone speaks English — start in French.
Avoid loud or overly expressive behavior.
Don’t ask personal questions early.
Don’t discuss money or flaunt wealth.
Dining Etiquette
DOs:
Wait for “Bon appétit!” before eating.
Keep hands visible (not elbows).
Try what’s offered.
Bring a gift when invited to someone’s home.
Eat slowly — meals are social.
DON’Ts:
Don’t ask for ketchup or spicy condiments.
Avoid customizing dishes.
Don’t overtip — a small extra is fine.
Avoid eating strong-smelling foods in public.
Communication & Conversation
DOs:
Engage in balanced conversation on culture or current topics.
Be open to debate and discussion.
Maintain eye contact.
Ask before switching to English.
DON’Ts:
Don’t interrupt others.
Avoid boasting or exaggeration.
Don’t bring up religion or politics too soon.
Hygiene & Appearance
DOs:
Shower daily and use deodorant.
Dress cleanly and professionally.
Keep yourself well-groomed.
DON’Ts:
Don’t use overpowering fragrances.
Don’t ignore local hygiene standards.
Public Behavior & Shopping
DOs:
Greet and thank shopkeepers.
Bring your own bag.
Wait in line patiently.
DON’Ts:
Don’t bargain in stores.
Avoid touching merchandise too much.
Cultural Adjustments
DOs:
Learn basic French phrases.
Respect work-life balance.
Appreciate privacy and slower-paced services.
DON’Ts:
Don’t expect over-the-top customer service.
Avoid imposing Indian customs, adapt first, observe more.
