Indonesia, with its rich cultural heritage, religious diversity, and warm hospitality, is an exciting and welcoming destination for Indians—whether you're traveling, working, or settling down. However, the social norms, customs, and etiquette can differ significantly from those in India. To ensure a smooth and respectful experience, it's important to understand local expectations in public behavior, communication, workplace etiquette, and daily life.
General Cultural
DOs
Dress modestly, especially in religious or rural areas. Cover shoulders and knees.
Remove shoes before entering homes, religious sites, or traditional buildings.
Use the right hand only for giving and receiving items.
Greet with a soft handshake or nod; use “Pak” (Mr.) or “Bu” (Mrs.) as a sign of respect.
Learn basic Bahasa Indonesia greetings like Selamat pagi (Good morning), Terima kasih (Thank you).
DON’Ts
Don’t use your left hand for eating or giving things.
Don’t touch anyone’s head—it’s considered sacred.
Don’t point with your index finger or feet.
Avoid public displays of affection.
Don’t raise your voice or lose your temper.
Avoid sensitive topics like politics, religion, or ethnicity.
Religious Sensitivity & Ramadan Etiquette
DOs
Respect all faiths and observe quietly during religious rituals.
During Ramadan, avoid eating or drinking in public during daylight.
Accept Iftar (break-fast) invitations it’s a sign of goodwill.
DON’Ts
Don’t bring non-halal items like pork or alcohol to Muslim homes.
Don’t photograph or interrupt prayers unless permitted.
Communication Etiquette
DOs
Be polite and soft-spoken.
Use honorifics; communicate gently, especially when giving feedback.
Smile often—it builds rapport and ease.
DON’Ts
Don’t interrupt conversations.
Avoid sarcasm or jokes that may not translate well.
Don’t embarrass or criticize people publicly.
Workplace & Business Etiquette
DOs
Be punctual.
Dress formally in business settings.
Focus on relationship-building before negotiating.
Collaborate and show humility.
DON’Ts
Don’t be overly aggressive in meetings.
Avoid addressing senior colleagues by first name unless invited.
Daily Life & Social Behavior
DOs
Smile, queue politely, and be patient.
Use ride apps like Gojek or Grab.
Bargain politely in traditional markets.
Carry cash for small vendors.
Accept food or offers graciously—even if you decline later.
DON’Ts
Don’t assume English fluency everywhere—translation apps help.
Don’t point your feet or place them on furniture.
Don’t compare Indonesian and Indian cultures disrespectfully.
Tips for Indian Travelers
Vegetarian food is available—ask for “Sayur” or “Tanpa daging”.
Drink bottled or filtered water.
Telkomsel and XL are popular SIM card providers.
Indian communities thrive in cities like Jakarta, Bali, and Medan.
Indonesia’s cultural diversity from the Hindu-Balinese traditions of Bali to the Islamic customs of Java makes it unique. Approach each region with respect, curiosity, and openness, and your time here will be both enriching and warmly welcomed.This guide provides a comprehensive overview of the Dos and Don’ts that every Indian visitor or resident should know to blend in gracefully, build meaningful relationships, and avoid cultural missteps in Indonesia.
