Whether you're visiting, studying, working, or settling in the United States, understanding the social and cultural expectations can make your experience smoother and more enjoyable. American society is quite different from Indian society in terms of communication style, personal space, social customs, and professional conduct. This guide is designed specifically for Indians to navigate everyday interactions in the U.S. with confidence and cultural awareness. From simple gestures like handshakes and tipping to deeper concepts like personal boundaries, gender equality, and workplace behavior this guide will help you avoid common pitfalls and connect better with people around you.
General Social
Dos
Maintain eye contact during conversations—it shows confidence.
Greet with a firm handshake (not too hard).
Respect personal space—keep at least an arm's length distance.
Be punctual—being on time is a sign of respect.
Use polite language like please, thank you, and excuse me.
Tip at restaurants (15–20%) and for services like valet, taxis, etc.
Respect individual choices, lifestyles, and opinions.
Speak directly and clearly—straightforwardness is appreciated.
Dress appropriately for the occasion—casual is fine for social settings, but dress formally for professional events.
Treat men and women equally—gender equality is a social norm.
Don’ts
Don’t ask personal questions too soon (salary, religion, marital status, etc.).
Don’t call unrelated elders “Uncle” or “Aunty”.
Don’t assume everyone is religious.
Don’t stand too close or touch unless clearly welcomed.
Don’t speak regional language in mixed company.
Don’t make constant comparisons to India.
Don’t interrupt when someone is talking—wait your turn.
Don’t litter in public—use trash and recycling bins.
Don’t assume jokes or sarcasm will translate across cultures.
Communication Style
Dos
Engage in small talk (weather, weekend plans, sports).
Be honest—say “I don’t know” if unsure, and offer to follow up.
Listen actively—nod, maintain eye contact, and respond thoughtfully.
Don’ts
Don’t talk over others—interrupting is seen as rude.
Don’t be vague—clarity and directness are appreciated.
Don’t assume everyone understands Indian slang or references.
Public Behavior
Dos
Hold doors open for others.
Queue patiently—respect lines everywhere (grocery stores, buses, etc.).
Say “excuse me” when passing by or if you bump into someone.
Don’ts
Don’t speak loudly in public spaces.
Don’t stare at people—even out of curiosity.
Don’t take photos of strangers or kids without asking.
Workplace Etiquette
Dos
Speak up in meetings—participation is expected.
Address colleagues and superiors by first names (if they allow).
Keep documentation—use emails or notes for important matters.
Be proactive—initiative is appreciated.
Respect work-life boundaries—avoid after-hours communication unless urgent.
Don’ts
Don’t be overly formal—using “sir” or “madam” feels out of place.
Don’t expect to be micromanaged—self-direction is important.
Don’t gossip—it’s unprofessional and harmful.
Don’t criticize publicly—give feedback respectfully, preferably in private.
Religious & Cultural Sensitivity
Dos
Be open-minded—accept that people may eat beef, drink alcohol, or live differently.
Respect LGBTQ+ identities, different family structures, and lifestyle choices.
Don’ts
Don’t assume others share your religious or cultural values.
Don’t pass judgment on live-in relationships, dressing styles, or dating culture.
